The N-dom XNFX conundrum: INFJ or ENFP?

In my experience, INFJs convince you into doing the right thing, ENFPs charm you into it.

This isn’t a hard and fast rule, especially since both can be quite convincing and quite charming. However, usually you know which one you are better off falling back on.

The Fe/Ti users are more likely to try to get you to actually believe them, whereas the Fi/Te users would be more satisfied with you just listening; they are less likely to spot repsonsibility for other people’s stupidity, even when they still want what’s best for them.