Some days my eyes are like tide pools.

March 24, 2021 (published 2021-04-09)

Some days my eyes are like tide pools.
(My favourite days)
Warm and full of light and life,
You can see right through them so clearly.

Others, many days they are surging waters that overflow. They rush, they are powerful; they may rise and fall, and sink and uplift.

But in an instant, they can become the blackest parts of the ocean.
(It is rare, but those who look known it when they see it).

The N-dom XNFX conundrum: INFJ or ENFP?

In my experience, INFJs convince you into doing the right thing, ENFPs charm you into it.

This isn’t a hard and fast rule, especially since both can be quite convincing and quite charming. However, usually you know which one you are better off falling back on.

The Fe/Ti users are more likely to try to get you to actually believe them, whereas the Fi/Te users would be more satisfied with you just listening; they are less likely to spot repsonsibility for other people’s stupidity, even when they still want what’s best for them.