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Skyglow and faith

There are some nights when for whatever reason we can't see the stars from where we are, but that doesn't make us doubt whether or...

Tuesday, 30 January 2024

4 INFJ Subtypes

The Cerebral

- gives the best advice but is tactful about it

- always wears the same two dress pants to work

- "I read somewhere..."

- will take your secrets to the grave


The Gem

- dresses in a distinct colour palette

- quality > quantity

- can count on them to be brave for their friends

- probably dreams about their wedding


The Hipster

- people instantly open up to them

- likes going to concerts but is frugal about it

- keeps in touch with old friends

- ENTPs love them


The Wholesome

- loves nature and poetry

- sentimental and always taking photos

- values giving people the benefit of the doubt

- probably vegan

Wednesday, 17 January 2024

The saddest word

 Cremate

Plants die. Skin cells die and it's not a big deal. But the only time you'd cremate someone is because they really mattered to you, and this is what they wanted. A final act of love.

Thursday, 11 January 2024

Bible verses to keep in mind during wedding planning

 Matthew 24:38

For as they were in those days before the Flood, eating and drinking, men marrying and women being given in marriage, until the day that Noah entered into the ark,

Don't get so caught up in the wedding planning that more important things take the back burner, especially spiritual activity and personal study.



2 Timothy 2:9

Likewise, the women should adorn themselves in appropriate dress, with modesty and soundness of mind, not with styles of hair braiding and gold or pearls or very expensive clothing, 10 but in the way that is proper for women professing devotion to God, namely, through good works


Remain modest in dress and grooming. Dress as you like dressing as a Christian, not putting on a worldly costume of sorts just because that is what is glorified in the media.



Luke 14:28

28 For example, who of you wanting to build a tower does not first sit down and calculate the expense to see if he has enough to complete it?


Spend within your means, and also PLAN to spend within your means. Calculate the cost in advance.



Matthew 6:25

25 “On this account I say to you: Stop being anxious about your lives as to what you will eat or what you will drink, or about your bodies as to what you will wear. Does not life mean more than food and the body than clothing?


The marriage itself is the important part. The reception is not the marriage. 


Do not buy into being overly anxious about these things.



Ecclesiastes 4:13

12 And someone may overpower one alone, but two together can take a stand against him. And a threefold cord cannot quickly be torn apart.


Keep Jehovah at the center of our relationship. Have a good spiritual routine, and in all our decisions think of how he would feel.


***Pray to Him, even silently, throughout the wedding day, too.



1 Corinthians 10:31

31 Therefore, whether you are eating or drinking or doing anything else, do all things for God’s glory.


Make this a celebration that brings glory to God, for a God

-honouring arrangement of marriage.

Saturday, 6 January 2024

Bloodhound

 If I were an animal, I'd be a bloodhound.

I can smell mental illness.

I have come to despise how accurate my intuition is. I can virtually never say "I didn't see it coming". I always see everything that can go wrong, and the burden is that in life there are very few answers that come without negative side effects, so my life is largely composed of seeing my fears come true over and over again.

The worst of reality is how often there is no perfectly right answer.

It feels like such a huge responsibility to feel the weight of everyone's decisions, the weight of the consequences before they have happened where I have to try to use my influence etonorevent it but it's ultimately not my decision to make. It's overwhelming.