This question being shared by Evelyn Krasnik changed my life.
"It has been years since I first read this question -right here on Quora- and I’m finally answering it.
While I don’t always succeed, I do now consciously try to make outcomes I desire my primary motivators. (Some days are better than others). Anger I have always found to be paralyzing so I can’t do much of anything when I’m angry; guilt on the other hand can easily control me. Other days, I aim more decisively towards a desirable outcome, instead of just to curb an undesirable one.
It can be hard to not get so caught up in fighting against that we forget what we are fighting for. But when we aim for an outcome we desire, amoung other things it helps us to act in principle and instead of say always looking back at mistakes us keep pushing forward to the things ahead, pushing it to where we want from here as opposed to just avoiding bad feelings from not having done the right thing sooner."
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