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Hey @ fellow "dismissive avoidants"... be so fr what kind of failed avoidant are you if you think you are sooo avoidant that you take it so far you can't not make your partner miserable and treat them like garbage, but you're two years in, still "avoidant", but haven't left them yet. It's not about being avoidant is it? Because you aren't doing a whole lot of avoiding. Are you maybe not just the exact kind of selfish prick we like to avoid? Anyway. Sincerely, a somewhat-less-arsehole dismissive avoidant
(jk I am clearly an asshole. Please don't think we can be friends.)
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Anyway, this is annoying. Being securely attached against all odds all years has been such a flex, but it just had to change, didn't it.
(It was from freaking anxious and anxious avoidants looking at my darkest time as an opportunity to test me. Maybe don't betray people you claim to care about by seeing how much harder you can make their life before they break and you can call yourself a victim again when there was nobody going to hurt you this time and it's you doing it now.)
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