Answer to Quora question: What does a mature INTJ and INFJ look like?

To add to what has already been said, part of maturity for an INFJ is able to be assertive, and not just to stand up for others but even to express their own individual feelings and emotions.

Also, allowing happiness to cohabit with sadness.

…And for both of the above, doing so without feeling overwhelmed by irrational guilt seems to be a common theme.

Posted to l-w April 28, 2018, to Quora Feb 12