Balancing when and how to talk about things

 I need to learn to balance speaking my mind, versus not being too quick to speak things and bottom line points at a moment, or point in larger stream of time when they are not prepared to hear it properly. 

I am too prone to extremes this way.

I have had the benefit of having thought alone these lines already before speaking. Maybe they have not, and while their growth is not my responsibility it is my responsibility to do my best to read the room.