I know we often say people search for or rely on external validation because they lack confidence in themsleves. But honestly I think every human really does draw from both to a degree, but some people do go straight to the external for the bulk of their validation, while others only turn outwards so much when they have already tried onwards but the inside conclusion is that you are worthless.
It's not that one way is okay and the other isn't, it just seems like not everyone is that introverted though they their natural first thing to rely on is always confidence built in oneself rather than external validation. And even introverts also need external validation, but maybe not as much or it's not as big of a first choice.
Or maybe I'm totally off. Idk.
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