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Enmeshment I believe is a likely part of the secret fifth Cluster B personality disorder I have been strongly suspecting exists for for past long time. The one that seems to build an identity around being some version of a "protector", and genuinely thinks he is helping people even when he is hurting them and asking too much from them, and this title he has crowned himself with inflates his ego like a balloon therefore making him prone to crashing out/rage when things are not going his own way.
He uses this identity to avoid his flaws and avoid having to think. He thinks he can live like a compass that points only north, and instead of navigating through life he bulldozes his way instead, thinking as long as he is unwavering in going in *that* direction, he is all good. And he does this in the name of the cause of being some sort of "protector", but ironically may even over the very ones he has convinced himself rely on him.
Because of this, it adds even more for him to avoid to all the stuff he is already using this built identity to avoid.
All this said I don't even have an undergraduate degree. I've just been an obsessive enthusiast with reading and thinking about psychology since I was a kid, not pro or anything like that.
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