I realize that I have the opposite problem to most men. I can think with my brain but I cannot see with my eyes. And when I'm looking for something, I think my little process is thinking to myself "maybe if I just think about it harder I'll find it". (I think this is related to me having to ask my mom if she has seen something for me to see it, even if it's right in front of me, and then before she has even checked most of the time I see it right in front of me.)